Liz Doyle

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Liz Doyle

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Liz Doyle

the Positive Change Coach

You can heal your life

Rebirth And Renewal with Louise Hay’s Wisdom

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Isn’t Spring, the season of rebirth and renewal, the perfect time to explore the transformative wisdom of Louise Hay?

We are celebrating the awakening of nature, and the fresh start that Spring brings.

Whether you’re a seasoned practitioner or new to these ideas I’ll be sharing with you, I invite you to open your heart and mind and fully participate in this shared experience with a beginner mindset!

Spring is a powerful opportunity to reflect, release what no longer serves nor supports us, and plant seeds for a brighter future.

And who better to guide us on this journey than the incredible Louise Hay?

If you are new to her work, Louise Hay was a pioneer in the field of self-help and positive thinking.

Her message was simple yet profound – our thoughts create our reality, and by changing our thoughts, we can heal our lives.

Today, we’ll explore key aspects of her philosophies, focusing on how they align with the energy of Spring and support our mind, body, and spirit.

We have just celebrated the Spring Equinox, also known as the Vernal Equinox, which marks the moment when the sun crosses the equator, resulting in roughly equal amounts of daylight and darkness.

This signifies a time of balance and transition. Traditionally, this time has been celebrated across cultures as a time of fertility, renewal, and the return of life.

It’s a powerful opportunity to plant seeds of intention, both literally and metaphorically.

Just as nature wakes up, we too can awaken dormant aspects of ourselves, shedding what no longer serves us and supports us and embracing new possibilities.

To connect with the energy of Spring, let’s begin by grounding ourselves in our bodies.

I invite you to move your body right now in any way that feels good to you before you read any further.

Feel the energy flowing through your body, releasing any stagnant energy and creating space for new growth.

In a world that often feels chaotic and bloody crazy, Louise Hay’s message of self-love and healing is more relevant than ever.

She taught us that our thoughts create our reality and that we have the power to heal ourselves from the inside out.

I’m going to take you through a few of her core philosophies, explore practical ways to apply them to our lives, and share some suggestions for reflection.

Whether you’re new to Louise Hay’s work or a long-time admirer, I hope you find this inspiring and empowering.

Please feel free to share your thoughts, questions, and experiences by dropping me an email at hello@lizdoyle.net

One of Louise Hay’s fundamental beliefs is that our thoughts shape our experiences. That what we think about and believe becomes our reality. This isn’t about magical thinking, but about recognising the power of our subconscious mind.

How often do you find yourself engaging in negative self-talk?

Stuff like:

These thoughts, repeated over and over, become ingrained patterns that attract similar experiences. They literally wear a groove in your brain.

Louise urged us to become aware of our thought patterns and to consciously choose positive, empowering thoughts instead.

For example, instead of:

“I’m always sick.”

Try:

“I am open to vibrant health.”

Instead of:

“I don’t deserve love.”

Try:

“I am worthy of love and acceptance.”

It does take practice, but by shifting our thoughts, we can shift our reality.

Louise believed that our thoughts are like seeds, and affirmations are the fertile soil in which they grow.

Her very simple affirmation, ‘All is well in my world,’ encapsulates her belief in the inherent goodness of life.

She taught us to affirm our worthiness, our health, and our happiness.

And isn’t Spring the perfect time to weed out those old, negative thoughts and plant new, positive ones?

Oprah named Louise the Queen of Affirmations

Positive affirmations are positive statements that we repeat to ourselves, reinforcing desired beliefs.

They’re like planting seeds in the soil of our minds.

To create effective affirmations, they need to be:

Positive:

Focus on what you want, not what you don’t want.

Present tense:

Speak as if it’s already true.

Specific:

Be clear about what you desire.

For example:

Repeat your affirmations throughout the day, especially when you catch yourself engaging in negative self-talk. Write them down, say them aloud, or visualise them in your mind.

Over the years, affirmations have helped me completely transform my life.

Forgiveness and Letting Go

Another crucial aspect of Louise Hay’s work is forgiveness.

Holding onto resentment and anger blocks our energy and prevents us from moving forward. She stressed the importance of forgiveness again and again, not just of others, but also of ourselves.

Forgiveness doesn’t mean condoning harmful behaviour. It means releasing the emotional burden that you’re carrying.

It’s about choosing peace over pain.

Letting go of the past allows us to create space for new, positive experiences. Spring is about letting go, and forgiveness is a powerful tool for releasing the past.

My course on Insight timer called “Louise Hay’s Forgiveness Sets Me Free!” may be of interest to you.  You can check it out here.

And my meditations, also on the app:

Louise Hay’s Affirmations for Forgiveness

and

Louise Hay’s It’s Time to Forgive Yourself

All of these will really help you if you want to experience the freedom that forgiveness can bring.

 “The List”

Louise Hay said “Every cell in your body responds to every single thought you think.”

She believed that our bodies are a reflection of our thoughts and emotions.

When we hold onto stress and negativity, it can manifest as physical ailments.

Spring is a time to reconnect with our bodies and honour their needs.

“I listen to the wisdom of my body”

Pay attention to your body’s signals. Are you giving it the nourishment, rest, and movement it needs? Spring is about revitalising our physical energy. Nature is waking up, and so can we.

Embrace fresh, seasonal foods, spend time outdoors, and move your body in ways that feel good.

Louise Hay believed that physical ailments are often linked to emotional and mental patterns.

Her worldwide best seller “You Can Heal Your Life” is a cornerstone of the self-help movement. And Chapter 15, “The List,” is such a valuable resource.

This is why it’s so powerful.

The fundamental principle is that our thoughts and emotions directly influence our physical health. “The List” serves as a guide to help us identify these connections.

The chapter provides a comprehensive list of common physical issues and their corresponding probable mental causes. By examining this list, we are encouraged to look inward and explore the emotional and mental patterns that may be contributing to our health challenges.

Alongside each potential cause, Louise offers positive affirmations designed to counteract negative thought patterns and promote healing. These affirmations are tools for reprogramming the subconscious mind and fostering a more positive and healthier outlook.

This is how “The List” Works:

The process involves honest self-reflection and a willingness to confront potentially uncomfortable emotions. It’s about taking responsibility for our own well-being and recognising the power of the mind to influence the body.

The goal is to shift from negative, limiting beliefs to positive, empowering ones.

By consistently using the provided affirmations, we can gradually change our habitual thought patterns and create a more harmonious mind-body connection.

But please remember

While Louise Hay’s “The List” offers a framework for understanding potential emotional roots of physical ailments, it’s important to acknowledge that its correlations are not always applicable to everyone. Some individual experiences can vary significantly.

And please remember this too

“The List” is not intended as a substitute for professional medical advice. It’s a tool for self-discovery and personal empowerment.

The power of affirmations lies in their ability to rewire the subconscious mind and promote positive change.

I’m now going to ask you to consider if you experience any of the following health issues. Just simply acknowledge it for yourself, and perhaps consider the potential emotional connection Louise suggests.

Think about whether you experience any of these, and if so, what emotions might be connected:

The goal is to encourage you to consider the mind-body connection and explore potential emotional roots of physical symptoms, as suggested by Louise Hay.

Louise taught us the importance of self-love, and forgiveness and a lot of other things too!!!

In essence, Chapter 15 of “You Can Heal Your Life” provides a practical framework for exploring the mind-body connection and taking proactive steps toward healing.

By addressing the underlying emotional issues, we can support our body’s natural healing process.

Remember, self-love is the greatest healer.

When we love and accept ourselves unconditionally, we create an environment where healing can occur.

You can can get yourself a copy of this life changing book from Hay House Publishing, here.

Finally, let’s explore how Louise Hay’s philosophies can help us connect with our spirit, our inner peace.

“I am connected to the infinite source of love and wisdom within me.”

Louise was, of course, a metaphysical teacher, and she taught us that we are all connected to a higher power, a source of infinite love and wisdom. Spring is a wonderful time to deepen that connection.

And of course, meditation is the perfect practice to do that.

You may wish to check some of my meditations out on Insight Timer here – there are quite a few Louise Hay ones!

“I am at peace with myself and the world around me.”

Cultivating inner peace is essential for navigating life’s challenges. To deepen our connection to our spirit, let’s take some time for journaling and reflection.

Allow your inner wisdom guide you as you journal.

Spring is a time of balance, and by connecting with our spirit, we can find that balance within ourselves.

How can you integrate Louise’s teachings I’ve shared with you today into your life going forward?

What actions will you take to embody the principles of self-love, forgiveness, and positive thinking?

As we come to the end of our time together, I want to express my gratitude for your presence and your willingness to embrace the wisdom of Louise Hay. I also want to thank Louise Hay for always guiding us.

May this season of Spring be a time of profound transformation and renewal for you.

Remember, you are worthy of love, happiness, and abundance. Embrace the power of your thoughts and watch your life blossom.

I wish you a season of growth, joy, and balance.

And if you wish to find out more about how I work with clients, follow this link.

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Forgiveness

Image of Liz Doyle - Forgiveness

Louise Hay’s gentle and powerful messages of love, forgiveness and acceptance have inspired me hugely both personally and professionally. 

It can be really hard to forgive.

It is a process that can take years. I really believe in forgiving and yet, there are things that I might never be able to forgive. But I’m willing to forgive which is always the first step.

I suggest beginning by forgiving yourself for not being able to forgive in this moment!

I’ve also learned that I do not have to forgive the act itself, but I can try to forgive the person who committed it. The goal is to separate someone’s deeds from who they are as a person.

I have had a rather long, challenging and ultimately freeing journey of forgiving my mother and others who hurt me badly and letting it all go. 

If you’re not ready to forgive yet, approach yourself with gentle amusement.

Be kind to yourself and remind yourself that you’ll forgive when you are ready.

By giving yourself that kind of permission, it makes it much easier to get on with life, because you’ve opened up some emotional space for yourself and you’ve accepted where you’re at.

Here’s a little video – How forgiveness lets us free ourselves.

A-Z of Self Love – Forgiveness

Fake forgiveness is temporary, conditional, past is ongoing, motivated by fear and there is anger

True forgiveness is permanent (!), it is unconditional, you state the past is over, it is inspired by love and it takes time

True forgiveness is when you can say, “Thank you for that experience” 

Oprah Winfrey

Don’t judge if you see people forgiveness quickly.- it’s not necessarily fake.

Forgiving doesn’t mean forgetting but learning.

Many of my clients have found forgiveness one of the most powerful tools within our coaching sessions.

But in particular, the exercises on forgiveness were incredible.

I have started a daily practice of forgiveness and it is very freeing.

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For more of a background about who I am and how I work with women, follow this link. And, of course, get in contact if you’r ready to set yourself free.

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Louise Hay

Louise Hay

Although Louise Hay was a pioneer in personal development there’s a lot of people I talk to who have never heard of her.

Here’s a little intro to who she was and her work. 

This is why I love sharing her work 💜💜

Love Yourself Heal Your Life

There is quite a lot of info out there about Louise and in my upcoming blogs I’ll be sharing a lot more about her.

However, the following is something very special that she shared in her teachings. I have the honour to work through these steps, in depth, with my clients during one of our sessions.

I will share a shortened version but these 12 steps are so powerful ♥️

How to Love Yourself – Louise Hay

1. Stop all criticism. Criticism never changes a thing. Refuse to criticise yourself. Accept yourself exactly as you are. Everybody changes. When you criticise yourself, your changes are negative. When you approve of yourself, your changes are positive.

2. Forgive yourself. Let the past go. You did the best you could at the time with the understanding, awareness & knowledge that you had. Now you are growing & changing and you will live life differently.

3. Don’t scare yourself. Stop terrorising yourself with your thoughts. It’s a dreadful way to live. Find a mental image that gives you pleasure (mine is yellow roses), and immediately switch your scary thought to a pleasurable thought.

4. Be gentle and kind and patient. Gentle with yourself. Kind to yourself. Patient with yourself as you learn the new ways of thinking. Treat yourself as you would someone you really loved.

5. Be kind to your mind. Self-hatred is only hating your own thoughts. Don’t hate yourself for having the thoughts. Gently change the thoughts.

6. Praise yourself. Criticism breaks the inner spirit. Praise builds it up. Praise yourself as much as you can. Tell yourself how well you are doing with every little thing.

7. Support yourself. Find ways to support yourself. Reach out to friends and allow them to help you. It is being strong to ask for help when you need it.

8. Be loving to your negatives. Acknowledge you created them to fulfil a need. Now you are finding new, positive ways to fulfil those needs. So, lovingly release the old negative patterns. 

9. Take care of your body. Learn about nutrition. What kind of fuel does your body need to have optimum energy and vitality? Learn about exercise. What kind of exercise can you enjoy? Cherish and revere the temple you live in.

10. Mirror work. Look into your own eyes often. Express this growing sense of love you have for yourself. Forgive yourself looking into the mirror. Talk to your parents looking into the mirror. Forgive them, too. At least once a day say: “I love you, I really love you!”

11. LOVE YOURSELF- DO IT NOW! Don’t wait for until you get well, or lose the weight, or get the new job, or the new relationship. Begin NOW- do the best you can.

12. Have Fun.  Remember the things that gave you joy as a child. Incorporate them into your life now. Find a way to have fun with everything you do. Let yourself express the joy of living. Smile. Laugh. Rejoice, and the Universe rejoices with you.

(©  Louise Hay Blog “Do You Love Yourself?” January 3, 2013)

Aren’t they beautiful and I can promise you, life changing? ♥️

You might already know who Louise Hay was (and is) and would like to find out how you can “change your thinking, change your life” by working with me. If so, you can book in a call with me using this link.

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